Since reading Real Boys by William Pollack in graduate school, I have been fascinated to learn about the lives of boys. In my graduate and doctoral program, many of my papers were focused on the expectations we have on boys about manhood and masculinity. Subsequently, I have run countless boy-focused groups and seen numerous male…
DetailsAs a psychotherapist in private practice for over 30 years, I have had the pleasure and privilege of knowing people intimately. What I do gives me purpose and self-satisfaction. I often find myself wishing I could help someone more or wanting to understand something deeper. I take time during the week to jot down notes…
DetailsIn this moment I can actually hear myself telling more than one patient I’ve seen in the past, that it’s important to try new things. I’m a self-professed creature of habit though so sometimes I need to give myself as much of a push to try those new things as I do to them. With…
DetailsDismantling the Disdain Welcome and thank you for taking the time to read my first blog post. Moving forward, I plan to write a series related to alcohol and drug related problems (AOD) in the United States. It is one of the most prolific issues with which society has to contend. Most people have either…
DetailsWelcome to the second installment of my blog, Softer Eyes. In my first posting, I described the concept of Softer Eyes. In essence, Softer Eyes refers to the ability to view our partner through a compassionate, benevolent lens. When most couples present for couples therapy, they are hurt and understandably angry with their partner. While…
DetailsWhat are you afraid of? Flying? Public speaking? Heights? These are among the more common fears or phobias. Less common fears can cover a wide range of objects, animals and social situations such as fear of driving or fear of death. The National Institute of Mental Health estimates that about 9% of adults are affected…
DetailsAlthough an isolated episode of forgetfulness is hardly reason to call the doctor, millions of Americans are understandably concerned when they see signs of dementia, either in themselves or in a loved one. The truth is that dementia is widespread among seniors, and its effects can be devastating. According to the latest government estimates, about…
DetailsAccording to Neuropsychologist Dr. Ashley Gorman, the keys to an accurate diagnosis are the extent of the symptoms and their duration. Are these behaviors interfering with your child’s ability to function at home and at school and how long have they been present? Is your child unable to sit still at the dinner table? Daydreaming…
DetailsPublic attitudes toward homosexuality have changed decidedly in the last twenty years. The rapidity of the shift toward greater tolerance of homosexual behavior across all religious and political groups – with younger people leading the way – is evidenced most dramatically in the growing acceptance of same-sex marriage. While there are likely many reasons for…
DetailsWelcome to the first installment of my new blog, Softer Eyes. I very much appreciate your taking the time to check it out, and I hope that the concept of Softer Eyes will be both meaningful and useful to you in your personal and professional relationships. For those of you who may not be aware,…
DetailsOn Tuesday September 19, 2023, JCP&L will be working in our area, and the power at 50 Cherry Hill Road will be turned off for the day. Our offices will be closed, and telephone system will be turned off as well. We can still be reached by email. We apologize for any inconvenience.